Monday, June 28, 2010

Father's Day and Rowan's Birthday

Most of this will be a repeat for my Facebook friends, but since I use my blog as a family scrapbook of sorts, I feel I need to enter everything in the blog as well. So, here come all the pictures from Father's Day and Rowan's birthday!

For father's day, the kids and I planned a super secret canoe trip on the Wisconsin River.  Of course the same day I told the kids about our super secret trip, Jason told me that Ellie told him all about it, but that he couldn't tell me he knew because it was secret.  Now I know I can't trust Ellie (or Jason) with my secrets :)  Seriously though, I knew Jason would find out, so I wasn't too worried. 

I reserved the canoe (using Groupon, have you checked if your city has Groupon?  It brings a new amazing deal every day!), packed a couple days' worth of food, and drove the family 45 minutes away to begin our adventure.  The canoe company picked us up at the ending point of the trip, shuttled us to a location 10 miles up river, and left us with a canoe, life jackets, paddles, and instructions to paddle down to just before the third bridge to where our car was parked.  I expected a little more instruction than that, but I guess navigating canoes is not too difficult.  We made it out alive at least!

We really had a blast!  Ellie was whining a lot at first that it was too scary and we were going to tip (which we never did), but the nice thing about the Wisconsin river is that most of the river is shallow enough to reach the bottom.  There are so many sandbars that create little islands perfect for a stopping point to eat and splash in the water.  Jason and I came home with sunburned legs and random other spots on our bodies, but other than that, it was a great day.  Definitely worth doing again.

We're ready!



Our navigator.  Although we realized halfway through that the person in the front does twice as much work at the person in the back for half the results.  So, Jason switched to the back and I just did pretty much nothing :)

Look, from behind I don't even look 7 1/2 months pregnant :)

Ooh, Jason caught a fish

Rowan's birthday started off with him waking me up super early.  But how can you get annoyed with this adorable 3 year old smiling at you?

We went out to lunch at Noodles and Company, shopped at Border's so he could spend some birthday money on a toy he picked out all by himself, and ran into the grocery store for some supplies to make his brachiosaurus birthday brownies he requested.  I found an easy tutorial online on how to make this fun dinosaur, although I made it even more fun by coloring it bright blue instead of dino green and adding colorful M&M spots.  And Rowan made sure to point out that it wasn't really a brachiosaurus because the "cake" has spikes, and brachiosaurus do not.  Whatever, the spikes were too cute to leave off.

The bright blue frosting and chocolate ice cream left wonderful mustaches on all the kids

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Homeschool Q & A

Just to start, I'm going to list the three main reasons we decided to homeschool.

1.  Quality of education.  I have no doubt that a child can get a great education from a regular school.  I LOVED school, and I think my education was incredible.  From what I know of it, I really like the elementary school that our kids would go to here in Madison.  The main thing we don't like about public education is that it is really difficult to tailor the education to each child.  A teacher has to do his/her best for the entire class and cannot feasibly give each student completely different tasks dependant on what level they are at or what interests them.  This is one benefit we see from homeschooling.  With only 3 kids (for now)  ;D  that we will be teaching, we have a lot more time to spend with each child.  We will learn from years of experience how each child learns best and can use that knowledge in helping them learn as much as possible about the world.

2.  Freedom.  Freedom in what we teach, when we teach, and where we teach.  We will not have set school times (as you can read below), so our kids will be learning when they are most ready.  Unless we have a scheduled activity, I will not have to wake up my kids to get ready to school.  As far as subjects, our kids can learn about whatever we want to teach them or they want to learn.  Fencing?  Car Mechanics?  Russian?  If any child shows a great skill or interest in a certain subject, we can help cultivate that skill with basically no time constraints.  If we ever have a normal income, we would love to be able to travel.

3. Social.  There are some things about society that, although we know our kids will need to learn someday, we don't feel like they need to learn them so early.  Things like grades, tests, rankings, cliques, "mean people."  We will enroll them in extracurricular activities and they will have friends, so they will deal with all that to an extent, but we will have a lot more control over what they are exposed to at an early (impressionable) age.  I'm sure I'll get some criticism for this reason :)

The Porters said...


I don't have any questions (yet), but I do have a request. Can you teach Ellie how to type and upload pictures so that she can keep the blog posts coming when her Mommy is busy with Violet? Just a thought! Computer class would be awesome and very productive! :)

That would be a great idea - if I wasn't so possessive of my computer :)  We do let the kids use it sometimes, but I'm always afraid they will do something to it and I won't be able to figure out how to get it undone.  If we had space, I would set up an old laptop for them.  Hmm, good project to get started on...

Nichole said...



Sorry if you have multiple posts with questions from me, but I'm very curious about homeschooling things. The one thing I still REALLY want to know is what curriculum you're using, and what are you planning on teaching as far as subjects go? Will you teach all the subjects they'd learn in public school? Are you teaching whatever the child is interested in that day (I've heard this is sometimes done with homeschooling) or making sure they meet the standards they'd meet in a public school? Are you planning on home schooling all your kids or just the ones that you think would benefit more in that setting? Ummm... let me think some more. I know I had more questions than that, and not because I don't like homeschooling, but because I'm very curious about your personal plans. It's the teacher in me!  Another one... if one or more of your kids tells you they'd rather go to public school, would you let them?


We will not be using a set curriculum.  Our homeschooling style will be classified as "eclectic." The different teaching styles are explained here.  Ours will be a mix of Unit Studies, Living Books (or Charlotte Mason), and Identity-Directed.  We are using a method of organization called "The Workbox System;" this method is described really well here.  We are planning on buying these storage carts as soon as they come back in stock.  During the evening, I will fill each drawer with an activity for Ellie (and Rowan will probably end up with his own, since he'll want to do anything Ellie does) to do.  Since there are 6 drawers, we will do 6 "subjects" each day.  Reading and math will most likely be daily activities, but the other subjects will be: history, geography, science, music, spanish, art, P.E, possibly others.  Our goal is that every activity in the box will be something fun that Ellie will enjoy doing.  For example, for math we might play Monopoly or one of her ThinkFun logic games.  For science, we'll do a cool science project.  There are sooo many homeschooling blogs that provide great ideas for fun activities. 

The one difference (from many traditional homeschoolers) that we will have in our homeschooling plan is that it will be a great deal child-led.  Ellie can work on any box whenever she wants, and she might not even choose to do all the boxes each day.  If we see that there is a certain subject or activity that she never chooses, we will have to work hard to think of enjoyable ways to pursue that subject.  We will have no set school time. 

We will aim for at least one field trip a week.  A lot of times our workboxes will focus on the same idea, explored through different subjects.  One big project we are planning on is studying different countries around the world.  We will learn geography, history, language, cooking, art, reading, and maybe even more through studying one country.  Or we'll study all aspects about a certain place nearby, and then go to visit. 

We will keep our eyes on the standards typical public school students would be learning, but not follow them strictly.  We don't want to completely miss out on a certain skill/knowledge, but it's not crucial to us that our kids know them exactly when other kids do. 

From our experience in teaching Ellie so far, we think this style will be good for her.  She is self-motivated and loves to learn.  One good thing about homeschooling is that we can change what we do at any time if it doesn't work out for us.  Rowan (and Violet) may not learn in the same ways, so we may have to tweak our system for them in the future.  But our goal for now is to homeschool all the kids, as long as we find it beneficial.  If, in the future, one of our kids tells us they want to go to school, we will evaluate the reasons why they want to before we make a decision. 

aliciajill said...



hmmm, let's see. What curriculum are you using? Is Ellie excited? How long do you plan to homeschool for (just the lower grades? or through high school?)? Does your district offer online classes, or the option for homeschool kids to participate in certain activities/field trips? Are you going to join a homeschooling group? I know there are some out there that offer special opportunities for kids to socialize/do special things. I think homeschooling is great, at B's gymnastics school a lot of kids are homeschooled and I have often pondered it. I can't wait to hear how it goes for you!



Ellie is excited.  When we first mentioned homeschooling to her, she was upset that she wouldn't be going to the same school where her neighbors go.  But the more she learns about what you do in school, and what we'll be doing at home, the more she likes the idea of homeschooling.  Plus, where we live she will see her friends after school a lot.  She will also be going to her preschool three afternoons a week.  We enrolled her there just for fun, and she has a friend in her class who will also be starting homeschooled kindergarten.  We figured she enjoys it, she'll still be 5 for almost all of the school year, and Jason's school subsidizes most of the tuition, so we will hardly pay anything for her to go.

I've heard that the nearby elementary school lets homeschoolers join in P.E., art, and maybe even more.  We'll have to look into that soon.  There are a lot of homeschooling groups in Madison, but I haven't check out any of them yet.  I'm hoping that if we move after Jason graduates, it will be another homeschool-friendly city like Madison is. 

Mindy said...



Hey! We will be homeschooling too, but not until next year! It's really big here in Middle TN. I am going to use Ambleside Online since we did a little of it for preschool stuff and it's practically free if you have a good library and computer/printer setup. Also, there are a lot of co-ops here, so Kyle will attend electives once a week at one of those, which will be great for all of us! Can't wait to hear about your homeschooling adventure, tips, and tricks since you'll be a year ahead of us!

I hadn't checked out Ambleside Online yet, but that looks like an incredible resource!  I think as the kids get older, our style will switch to more of a Charlotte Mason approach.


Additional info:

None of our plans are set in stone and will most likely change as the kids get older and we see what works and what doesn't. 

This is completely written by me (Kirsten) and Jason has not read it yet, so he could have differing ideas on some points. :)

We would love to have a regular volunteer project that Ellie can do, does anyone have ideas for something a 5-year-old can do on a regular basis? 

Homeschooling

I have had tons of questions about homeschooling, but unfortunately I don't remember a lot of them.  And I can't go back far enough in Facebook to find them :)  If anyone has any questions, please post them as comments and I will answer them within the next couple days.  Thanks!

Sunday, June 13, 2010

The past month in pictures

In the past month...

Rowan has fallen in the lake

Ellie hatched butterflies from caterpillars

Ellie mastered riding with no training wheels

We've eaten a lot of salads!


We've played a little bit inside...

but mostly outside.



Jason and I went to Milwaukee (without kids!)

And enjoyed many evenings with the neighbors

We've spent tons of time in the garden

Violet Nova Tatum has grown enormous :)

We tried moving Rowan to a toddler bed, but we've been unsuccessful

And Ellie has been practicing for (homeschooling) kindergarten

Whew!  As you can see, I have been much too busy to blog (at least that is my excuse)  ;D

Friday, May 07, 2010

Mommy and Ellie day

Ellie and I spent the afternoon together doing mother/daughter fun stuff. She wanted to spend some of her birthday money, and I was happy to help :)

First, we went out to lunch. Can you tell where we went?



I had an Einstein Bros. asiago bagel with cream cheese, and Ellie had Wisconsin mac and cheese with parmesan chicken from Noodles and Company. The best part of lunch was that I had free coupons for both, so I didn't even have to pull out my wallet :)

Then, we went here:



Can you guess why?

The coupon that Build a Bear sent to Ellie for her birthday was a really good advertisement ploy. She had $5 free to spend at the store, but even with my reasoning that she could get some free clothes, she just HAD to buy a new bear :) And the most colorful bear they had. In fact, she named her new bear "Colorful."



Then, the most anticipated event... something I did when I turned 5, and something she has been looking forward to for a year or two. Can you tell what she is looking at? And what is going through her pretty little head?



She is deciding whether or not to go through piercing her ears. How much will it hurt Mommy? More than a shot?

Finally she decided she was ready, and we picked out her first pair of real earrings. The man running the booth (who was very nice and patient) asked if she wanted to sit on the stool by herself or on my lap. She chose on my lap, so I didn't get any pictures or video of the actual event. But here is the play by play.

The man marked her ears (and re-marked one that I thought was off-center). Then, the first earring went in. I think Ellie was shocked at how much it hurt! She immediately reached up to her pierced ear, with tears in her eyes. Then she quickly grabbed her other earlobe protectively. She did NOT want the other one pierced. She kept saying, "Wait, I'm not ready; I'm not ready!" She never cried; she was just very adamant that she was not ready to get the other ear pierced. I tried to convince her that she couldn't walk out with just one ear pierced. I told her that the next one would be just as quick, and then we'd be done for good. But no amount of words would help her change her mind. It wasn't until the piercing man pulled out a lollipop that she consented to getting the other ear pierced. And then, it was done. She gazed admiringly at herself in the mirror for a while.



I think she was proud of herself for her choices on how to spend her birthday money



It was a fun afternoon! Tomorrow her birthday week culminates with a trip to see "How to Train Your Dragon" with Daddy. And maybe a trip to Cold Stone :)

Sunday, May 02, 2010

Colorful Carnival

Ellie is five years old!!! I can hardly believe it. Our first-born has already passed through infancy, babyhood, toddlerdom, preschool, and is entering school-age. I'm so glad there are a few years until pre-teen!

Of course Ellie was the first one awake this morning. She was very patient though and waited until everyone was awake before opening presents.



Rowan and Ellie love her new keyboard! Now she can join cousin Bryson's rock band :)



Rowan and I went to Trader Joe's for some party supplies while Jason took Ellie for a walk. After a lot of preparation, it was finally party time! Ellie went inside to change into her beautiful dress she insisted on wearing.



Jason and I brought out the colorful food (fruit, veggies, tortilla chips and salsa).



Then the activities begun! We had face painting,



games of twister,



hyper dash (until it broke),



and personal pinatas that each child decorated and then destroyed to find the goodies inside.



Except to break open his pinata, Rowan didn't stray far from the food.





Especially when Ellie's rainbow cake came out!





We all sang happy birthday to Ellie and she tried to blow out the candles :)






I was relieved to see that the cake looked awesome when we cut into it.




With our wonderful friends and neighbors, the party was a big success. Parents were helping every chance they could, which made everything work so well. Thank you everyone for coming and making Ellie's day so special!!

Friday, April 30, 2010

Professional photos

Our professional photographs are posted for all to see!

Here are the directions from the photographer:

Please enter my website. do this by clicking on website or proofing at the bottom of the page

http://www.maureencassidyphotography.com/

click on proofing again at the bottom(once you are inside the site)

This will direct you to submit a password:

your password/gallery name is Kirsten

A slide show will automatically load. These are your pictures. Sit back and enjoy. When you are ready to start proofing bring your cursor to the bottom of the screen and you will see your pictures and a little cart icon. Click on this and it will bring you to your proofing site.

*NOTE THAT THE SLIDESHOW IS JUST OF MY FAVS, IN THE "PROOFING THERE IS 2 FOLDERS, favs and therest on the left side of the screen.
Make sure you view them both, "therest" folder has more than the favs.

When in your proofing site note the little thumbnail pictures on the left of the screen.

Click on these to preview your picture bigger.
You can click on the thumbnail and drag the picture to the bottom bar.
This is your favorites palliate.

Once you have chosen your favorites then click on Continue to cart.
This will bring you to where you can purchase photos.

You can select packages or add each or all photos then with the drop down menu.
Then you can choose which size and quantity PLUS you can choose if you want the pic to be in Black and White or Sepia.

If you order in the next 2 days your prints will get to you in time for mother's day.
Plus I will give you a free 8x12 if you place your order by May 1st and you have a purchase over $60. (YOU DO THIS BY ADDING IT TO YOUR CART)

Click Checkout

Choose to pay online through paypal or off line by check, but I can not place your order without a check so this will be slower.
My address is
Maureen Cassidy
2072 Spring Rose Rd
Verona, WI 53593

LAST THING! Your gallery will expire on MAY 10.





Note from Kirsten: This photographer's website is not very user-friendly, in my opinion, especially if you are trying to order prints. It took me forever to get the prints I wanted, in the sizes I wanted. And when viewing these pictures, please remember that the camera adds 10 pounds to pregnant women (and it's all in the face) :)

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Fun with videos

Here is a great blog post for those of you who find yourself bored on a Sunday night :)

This video is the best video we have to show how a usual afternoon is spent. Complete chaos at it's finest. Thank you Jason for this lovely bit of cinematography.



Here is Rowan talking about his baby sister:



And Rowan and Ellie with their "Rusty Steed" LOL

Saturday, April 17, 2010

All About Baby

There is definitely a baby in there!



After being sick for 4 months, I am finally starting to gain weight! My belly popped in the past month to prove it :) My doctor told me that I should be gaining more weight because I don't have a net weight gain, until I reminded her that I lost weight the first couple months. Then she looked again and noted that I had gained 8 pounds in the past month, so I'm getting back on track!

We had our big ultrasound a couple weeks ago, and the baby checked out to be perfectly healthy. We had the ultrasound technician write down the baby's gender and put it in an envelope. We then gave the envelope to our neighbor and waited ALL DAY to find out that night if it was a boy or a girl. We invited over all the neighbors to share in the excitement. Paty walked in with a very impressive cake revealing a baby girl :) The kids didn't quite get it then, but by now they understand that a new baby sister will be joining us this summer. And they are so excited!

Here is the little girl we are so excited to meet!



And her perfect little foot:



Last weekend Madison had a huge children's consignment sale, and I gathered up some odds and ends to sell there. I still don't know how much I made yet, but I'm hoping it's more than what I spent at the sale :) In between that sale and our incredibly generous neighbors, we are set with all the basics for this baby, even though we had given away everything baby except for the crib that Rowan is still currently sleeping in. Even so, I've had fun making a baby registry at a website for a store here in Madison. It's been fun looking at all the cute odds and ends that we could buy for this little girl :) No clothes on the list though, because our adorable neighbor Coraline has provided enough clothes to keep this baby in style for sure. We probably even have enough in case twin girls happen to pop out ;D

Monday, April 05, 2010

Easter

Easter! I think this is the first year that it was not freezing cold in Madison for Easter. This year, our Easter celebrations were spread out over a week, and the entire week was wonderful weather. Our building (plus some other wonderful neighbors) had a huge Easter egg hunt the weekend before Easter. Almost 400 plastic eggs were scattered around our yard for the 19 kids to find. I think just a couple days ago someone found two eggs that had been still hiding all week :)




A couple days after that egg hunt, we went to a farm close to Madison that has over 20 chickens. Time to find some real eggs! Our neighbor organized another mini egg hunt at the farm. But the most exciting part for the kids was chasing the chickens. I don't think Rowan ever caught a chicken, but Ellie did!


Then this past Saturday we dyed our own Easter eggs. How come I don't remember the process only taking less than a minute when I was a kid? It seems like it took 10 times as long to get everything ready than it took to actually dye the eggs. Well, at least it was another photo opportunity. Although Ellie was in a bit of a sassy mood for pictures.

For the past couple of weeks, I have been working on a special project to give the kids for Easter. I found the idea on a blog, and itstead of paying for someone else to make everything for me, I looked at her pictures and made it myself (well, except for the leaf beds and pillows, one of our many friendly neighbors sewed them all and her daughter cut them out). I am so proud of the way they turned out!

And the kids seemed to like them too :)
They also received two movies, The Princess and the Frog and Toy Story 2. They didn't get to open their presents until afternoon, since I had to work that morning, but they were able to squeeze in a movie before heading to church that afternoon. Dinner at Perkins ended our fun Easter celebrations!

Wednesday, March 03, 2010

Kids say the darndest things

Rowan: Puts his arm around me and says, "Mommy, you're my best fwend"

Ellie: Insists, even though I've corrected her many times, that she likes to drink "soil" milk (soy milk) and eat "almints" (almonds). No amount of arguing will convince her of the correct pronounciation (but I'm pretty sure she's just saying it wrong on purpose now).

Rowan: At a music playgroup, a friend (and neighbor) leads the group. She asked Ellie her favorite food (macaroni)and we included that in the song. Rowan was next, so our friend asked him his favorite food. He answered, and my friend and I looked at each other thinking, "Did he just say ...?" So she asked again and he said again, "Barf." Yum Rowan.

Ellie: Our friend's daughter was at our place doing her homework and asked me what the word "cautious" meant. I said, "Hmm, well.." and I couldn't figure out right away how to explain it. So Ellie said, "Cautious means very careful." Thank you Ellie, for showing that you are smarter than your mom already.

Rowan: At a neighborhood potluck, Rowan flung his arm across the table to be silly and knocked a cup of milk on me. I faced him toward me and sternly said, "Rowan, look at me. You just spilled your milk on me. That was not nice. What do you say to me?" Rowan smiled and said, "You're welcome!" Not exactly what I was hinting at...

Both: Their new trick now to avoid getting in trouble is to say something like, "But that's what it says in my story! It says 'Ellie does not pick up her toys.'" Those of you who watch PBS kids Super Why know where that comes from.


Ooh, a bonus video! This is what happens when parents run out of ideas to entertain the kids. We were doing this for a while before remembering to film it to embarrass ourselves.